Dr. Mwaka Discusses Love, Relationships, and Polygamy on The Obinna Show
Dr. Mwaka, a respected motivational speaker and gifted public orator, recently appeared on The Obinna Show, where he openly shared his thoughts on love, relationships, and the often misunderstood concept of polygamy.
During the lively conversation, Dr. Mwaka addressed common misconceptions surrounding love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding human nature—particularly the male tendency toward polygamy.
“Polygamy exists everywhere; people are just too afraid to acknowledge it,” he remarked, urging men to seek their wives’ consent before marrying another woman. “Stay with your wife. If you want to marry again, do it with respect.”
Dr. Mwaka, who lives with his four wives and seven children under one roof, acknowledged that while polygamy is not without its challenges, it can be rewarding if handled with honesty and respect.
“Polygamy is not easy, but it’s fulfilling,” he said with a smile. “Women can live harmoniously if the husband treats them equally and with love.”
He believes that men are naturally polygamous, biologically inclined to be attracted to more than one woman at a time. Dr. Mwaka argues that denying this truth leads to many relationship issues.
On Trust and Privacy in Relationships
The conversation also touched on the delicate subjects of trust and privacy, particularly regarding mobile phones in relationships.
“If someone is hiding their phone, there’s a serious problem,” Dr. Mwaka observed. “But if a man hasn’t bought you the phone, he has no right to invade your privacy.”
He pointed out that many relationships break down not just because of infidelity, but due to the hidden messages and secrets couples keep from each other.
“Some people share negative stories about their partners with friends—stories they would never have the courage to say to their partner’s face. There are private conversations they don’t want you to see.”
Final Advice on Love and Self-Worth
Dr. Mwaka ended the discussion with a powerful piece of advice: never stay in a relationship or marriage where you are mistreated or undervalued.
“Many people suffer in relationships because they hold on to hope and potential,” he explained. “If someone mistreats you, walk away. Your peace is more important.”
